KarmaSutra
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:rockon:Skel said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
belividere
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Between LA, Miami, and NYC you wont find a very big difference in the number of beautiful people, but like your post says the very very rich are the ones that come in hordes. 70 - 80k doesn't put you in the same bracket as a lot of the folks in these areas.Randallpink83 said:
Pulling that much in a place like Chicago or Boston puts you in a separate income bracket in this age range. As expensive as Boston can be to own it still is a city that is filled with locals who themselves have been bought out of the metro area, the same is true in DC which has become ridiculously expensive over the past decade. Chicago is trying to become a city that taxes people out but renting is relatively cheap in trendy parts of the city and the glut in condo developments have driven rents that much cheaper. The same seems to be happening to the boston area.
Thanks for the words of wisdom guys. The salary I gave is actually a question of lifestyle. The jobs I like pay about that amount. I am not really interested in buying property or supporting a family at this point in time. I have a condo that I rent out already so I am building equity that way. I am not really that materialistic so I don't need a fancy car, a decent new car(15-20k) is probably what I would get if I got a car at all.
Basically I don't need to be a high roller. A one bedroom or even a studio apartment is sufficient for my needs.
Basically I don't need to be a high roller. A one bedroom or even a studio apartment is sufficient for my needs.
AfRoSwiss-Disiac
Don Juan
LA...is the best hands down
achtungiono
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All those cities are great.
Personally, i would go to LA. This region got Hollywood and alot of other cool places, nice weather and there are alot of hot women to meet here.
Hot women move to LA from smaller cities in hope to become movie starts, singers etc. They also spend alot of money on their looks, if you are into those women. It's alot of rich people here and if you play it right you may end up with some nice contacts, even thought that wasn't what you were looking for. But i think it's a great town.
Personally, i would go to LA. This region got Hollywood and alot of other cool places, nice weather and there are alot of hot women to meet here.
Hot women move to LA from smaller cities in hope to become movie starts, singers etc. They also spend alot of money on their looks, if you are into those women. It's alot of rich people here and if you play it right you may end up with some nice contacts, even thought that wasn't what you were looking for. But i think it's a great town.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
AfRoSwiss-Disiac
Don Juan
Yea exactley plus there peopple from all over the world in LA