"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best book you’ve read in terms of gender knowledge

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Recently I devoured the book ‘The Rational Male’ by Rollo Tomassi. It was a great book which gave me enormous insight in to the dynamics of genders and how both operate in terms of relationships, desires, wants, etc. I will continue to delve deeper in to more of his work.
I love to read and I know many of you have value it also.

So my question is; What top three books you have read that have given you the greatest insight and have been most impactful for you in your life concerning becoming a better man and success in intimate relationships with a woman?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Despite being mainstream, the old book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus has a lot of useful knowledge. The point of the book is the differences between men and women. The book came out in 1990, I think, which is not that old, but I'm not sure a modern author would be allowed to say the same things. Feminists are tremendously insulted by the idea of men being different than women.
 

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The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
 

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Practical female psychology for the practical man
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I just ordered a copy of "the rational male" I need something to read on my 30 min 2x daily commute.
 

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Models - Atract women through honesty - Marc Manson
 
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