"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best book you’ve read in terms of gender knowledge

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Recently I devoured the book ‘The Rational Male’ by Rollo Tomassi. It was a great book which gave me enormous insight in to the dynamics of genders and how both operate in terms of relationships, desires, wants, etc. I will continue to delve deeper in to more of his work.
I love to read and I know many of you have value it also.

So my question is; What top three books you have read that have given you the greatest insight and have been most impactful for you in your life concerning becoming a better man and success in intimate relationships with a woman?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Despite being mainstream, the old book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus has a lot of useful knowledge. The point of the book is the differences between men and women. The book came out in 1990, I think, which is not that old, but I'm not sure a modern author would be allowed to say the same things. Feminists are tremendously insulted by the idea of men being different than women.
 

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The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
 

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Practical female psychology for the practical man
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I just ordered a copy of "the rational male" I need something to read on my 30 min 2x daily commute.
 

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Models - Atract women through honesty - Marc Manson
 
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