"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Best Bodywash for College-Age Kid?

eggnawgkid

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I'm about to start my freshmen year in college and I was wondering what a good bodywash would be for me. Something that smells good and gets me clean. Right now I'm using Old Spice and I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to what might be my best choice. I haven't had any experience with any other brands so please let me know what you all think. Thank you.

(Sorry if this doesn't belong in H&F, but it is personal hygiene related)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KillaCam

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I use Lynx Africa.

Not sure if you have it in the U.S, but Lynx is a deodorant company over here. Their bodywash line is pretty good, and cost-effective. Masculine scents, and gets ya clean.

Either that or St. Ives Swiss Formula, any of their range.
 
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Lynx = Axe = teh Devil
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Re:

Er, no body wash?

I remember back in college, I talked to a girl who only used Oil of Olay, because it didn't give off that soapy scum residue that clogs pores. IMO, all those fragrances are bad, except for the occasional cologne to spice things up, because they're not natural. That, and I'm allergic to alot of the preservatives added to these scents, so I can only use non-smelling deodorant.

But think about it, when a girl steals your clothes, she's looking for YOUR natural scent, the pheromones of a man. And we all have a natural scent. Alot of those chemicals, esp. when you sweat are absorbed by the body, poison it, or clog the pores. Just food for thought. I don't use body wash except for soap.


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Espi said:
Axe is very good. Cheap and sexy. Just like my women. :)

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