"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I met this chick at a dance and got her number and I called her today to seeif she wanted to see a movie with me and she said she was busy tomorrow and I stumbled and didn't really talk to her for more than 2 minutes about nothing...I'm debating calling her tomorrow and telling her i saw her on tv at the high school state game or just waiting to see if she'll call me back since she has my #...hard to tell...shes in 9th grade im in 10th. Any advice as to if to call her back or forget about her or wade it out?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If she didn't really show interest, then you're basically screwed.

Call in like 4-5 days (yes, DAYS, not hours) and ask her to do something. If she says no again, delete her number.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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haha I guess that would sound a bit stalkey...although I was just making it up for conversation. I really haven't talked to her that much and so she doesn't really know me...i think if she doesn't take the initiative and call back in a couple days I'll call her and ask her for her email.
 
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