"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I met this chick at a dance and got her number and I called her today to seeif she wanted to see a movie with me and she said she was busy tomorrow and I stumbled and didn't really talk to her for more than 2 minutes about nothing...I'm debating calling her tomorrow and telling her i saw her on tv at the high school state game or just waiting to see if she'll call me back since she has my #...hard to tell...shes in 9th grade im in 10th. Any advice as to if to call her back or forget about her or wade it out?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If she didn't really show interest, then you're basically screwed.

Call in like 4-5 days (yes, DAYS, not hours) and ask her to do something. If she says no again, delete her number.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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haha I guess that would sound a bit stalkey...although I was just making it up for conversation. I really haven't talked to her that much and so she doesn't really know me...i think if she doesn't take the initiative and call back in a couple days I'll call her and ask her for her email.
 
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