"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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best bank for checking?

KillingTime

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im currently with BOA under their student account which is totally free but that will end soon when i graduate and all their other checking accounts have fees.

Any good, reputable free checking accounts out there with no BS, no hidden fees and that offer free online banking/bill pay? Ive got my eye on wachovia but any others?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WaterTiger

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I switched to Bank of the West and love the hell out of them!
 

Cruise

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Yup... B of W is the best out there for free checking.

I happen to work for a subsidiary of Citigroup, so I get free checking through Citibank, which in my case is cool.

But, you should also check out some local Credit Unions. They usually offer better rate of returns (albeit marginal) for your money. Plus they're more competitive because they're usually not on the same scale as the bigger banks.
 

LA_Chico

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I saw Bank of America bro,
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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