"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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best bank for checking?

KillingTime

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im currently with BOA under their student account which is totally free but that will end soon when i graduate and all their other checking accounts have fees.

Any good, reputable free checking accounts out there with no BS, no hidden fees and that offer free online banking/bill pay? Ive got my eye on wachovia but any others?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WaterTiger

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I switched to Bank of the West and love the hell out of them!
 

Cruise

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Yup... B of W is the best out there for free checking.

I happen to work for a subsidiary of Citigroup, so I get free checking through Citibank, which in my case is cool.

But, you should also check out some local Credit Unions. They usually offer better rate of returns (albeit marginal) for your money. Plus they're more competitive because they're usually not on the same scale as the bigger banks.
 

LA_Chico

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I saw Bank of America bro,
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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