Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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best articles / writers for direct game?

TheFlyingMan

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I've fully realised my style of interaction...I'm direct. Any one that can give me some top articles or writers for direct game? Gunwitch is as direct as you can get, and Juggler....not sure if he's direct? Any more?

Also, any good articles, tips for day 2s?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Distant Light

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Shark and I think badboy even though I think he does direct also. But I know 100% shark does direct and big influence to most guys who do direct. He has a cd set called attract and date.

Also another kind of direct style is "The Approach" which they call natural game check out spirit fingers blog and you will get some great articles about natural game and if you go on asf search for VAC model thats the model that is used in natural game.
 

Zero Hero

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Distant Light said:
Shark and I think badboy even though I think he does direct also. But I know 100% shark does direct and big influence to most guys who do direct. He has a cd set called attract and date.

Also another kind of direct style is "The Approach" which they call natural game check out spirit fingers blog and you will get some great articles about natural game and if you go on asf search for VAC model thats the model that is used in natural game.
I'm not sure about Attract & Date...I went to their forum and they are obsessed with the "I Like You" approach which is totally retarded IMO. Now I like direct, but they are over the top with it and you see mostly failure in their field reports, even saw a thread asking what to do when they start laughing at you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zero Hero

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BTW, anyone know any good forums on direct where they actually have success?
 
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