"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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best articles / writers for direct game?

TheFlyingMan

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I've fully realised my style of interaction...I'm direct. Any one that can give me some top articles or writers for direct game? Gunwitch is as direct as you can get, and Juggler....not sure if he's direct? Any more?

Also, any good articles, tips for day 2s?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Distant Light

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Shark and I think badboy even though I think he does direct also. But I know 100% shark does direct and big influence to most guys who do direct. He has a cd set called attract and date.

Also another kind of direct style is "The Approach" which they call natural game check out spirit fingers blog and you will get some great articles about natural game and if you go on asf search for VAC model thats the model that is used in natural game.
 

Zero Hero

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Distant Light said:
Shark and I think badboy even though I think he does direct also. But I know 100% shark does direct and big influence to most guys who do direct. He has a cd set called attract and date.

Also another kind of direct style is "The Approach" which they call natural game check out spirit fingers blog and you will get some great articles about natural game and if you go on asf search for VAC model thats the model that is used in natural game.
I'm not sure about Attract & Date...I went to their forum and they are obsessed with the "I Like You" approach which is totally retarded IMO. Now I like direct, but they are over the top with it and you see mostly failure in their field reports, even saw a thread asking what to do when they start laughing at you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zero Hero

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BTW, anyone know any good forums on direct where they actually have success?
 
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