"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best apparel for bars and clubs?

prachanter

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Tight T-shirt (not baggy, but not too tight and gay looking) with interesting artwork with nice jeans or is a button up shirt, long sleeve or short, and dressier pants work better? I myself look young to I avoid baggy, and I look skinner with baggy clothes. Any look that’s good for guys who look young?

And how does one get an idea of what women will find attractive, without a gay fashion consultant?

Does it depend on the age of the women or does one style generally work?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Zen Energy

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pook himself said this, but im just rewording his point, "a woman wants someone who is entiredly unafraid to be himself in any situation." Besides, fashion is just a label thesee days. As long as you dont wear uncomfortably tight clothing, you're fine. two words,clean and tidy.
 

speakeasy

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Of you can be like Mystery and paint your nails black, wear Dr. Suess hats and tshirts with lights on them.
 

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It is possible to actually look bad, no matter how comfortable or clean you might personally feel, or how much you might feel you don't personally "need" any new clothes. I'd take the advise so far with a grain of salt.

I was never heavy in the club or bar scene though, so I'll lay low on this one other than what I just said.
 
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