"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best apparel for bars and clubs?

prachanter

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Tight T-shirt (not baggy, but not too tight and gay looking) with interesting artwork with nice jeans or is a button up shirt, long sleeve or short, and dressier pants work better? I myself look young to I avoid baggy, and I look skinner with baggy clothes. Any look that’s good for guys who look young?

And how does one get an idea of what women will find attractive, without a gay fashion consultant?

Does it depend on the age of the women or does one style generally work?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Zen Energy

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pook himself said this, but im just rewording his point, "a woman wants someone who is entiredly unafraid to be himself in any situation." Besides, fashion is just a label thesee days. As long as you dont wear uncomfortably tight clothing, you're fine. two words,clean and tidy.
 

speakeasy

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Of you can be like Mystery and paint your nails black, wear Dr. Suess hats and tshirts with lights on them.
 

azanon

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It is possible to actually look bad, no matter how comfortable or clean you might personally feel, or how much you might feel you don't personally "need" any new clothes. I'd take the advise so far with a grain of salt.

I was never heavy in the club or bar scene though, so I'll lay low on this one other than what I just said.
 
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