"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Best apparel for bars and clubs?

prachanter

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 15, 2007
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Tight T-shirt (not baggy, but not too tight and gay looking) with interesting artwork with nice jeans or is a button up shirt, long sleeve or short, and dressier pants work better? I myself look young to I avoid baggy, and I look skinner with baggy clothes. Any look that’s good for guys who look young?

And how does one get an idea of what women will find attractive, without a gay fashion consultant?

Does it depend on the age of the women or does one style generally work?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

The Zen Energy

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2007
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
pook himself said this, but im just rewording his point, "a woman wants someone who is entiredly unafraid to be himself in any situation." Besides, fashion is just a label thesee days. As long as you dont wear uncomfortably tight clothing, you're fine. two words,clean and tidy.
 

speakeasy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 4, 2006
Messages
2,776
Reaction score
77
Of you can be like Mystery and paint your nails black, wear Dr. Suess hats and tshirts with lights on them.
 

azanon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2006
Messages
2,291
Reaction score
41
It is possible to actually look bad, no matter how comfortable or clean you might personally feel, or how much you might feel you don't personally "need" any new clothes. I'd take the advise so far with a grain of salt.

I was never heavy in the club or bar scene though, so I'll lay low on this one other than what I just said.
 
Top