"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Best Allergy Medicine?

foomee

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What allergy medicine do you guys recommend?
It's allergy season and I think I'd like to switch over to a different medicine.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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blinkwatt

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We have a pharmacy at my job and ALOT of customer love the "Airborne" stuff,there is something alot the lines of 'made by a teacher' on the front.

Hope that helps!
 

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Allegra is my personal favorite. I would recommend seeing an actual doctor to ensure that it is seasonal allergies, and not a sinus infection or some other ailment. Obviously you need to go to the doctor to get the perscription for a majority of allergy medications anyway. So that shouldn't be a problem. Either way, allergy meds work best when taken daily for prevention, rather than an "as needed" basis. Avoid the meds with "D" at the end. They include sudafed. Most of the time you don't need the allergy med and the sudafed. If you do wind up needing the combo, you can always take the sudafed on top of the basic allergy med. You don't need the daily regimen of sudafed most of the time.
 
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if your symptoms are mild, i find nothing beats two benadryl taken at night -- i sleep like a baby, and it generally prevents the only mild symptoms i ever get (of course, i was completely unaware that i even had such symptoms until very recently -- i used to think i was just unlucky enough to always get a cold around now).

for more persistent stuff, i like claritin-D, esp. if you can find a big box o' generic. if you get the D variety, make sure you get the real stuff, i find the non-cookable replacement for pseudoephedrine completely useless.

obviously this is written from the perspective of someone who doesn't exactly "struggle" with the symptoms. your mileage may vary.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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