Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ben's Self-Improvement Journal

SilverSonnet

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
Well, that time has come for me to change my ways. After alot of moaning and time-wasting wishing, and a few kicks up the arse from Tom ;) I think it's time to start the beginning of the rest of my life :) the better life.

So, objectives.
Be less annoying
Dont talk so much
Change my body
Get a tan
Clear my skin
Revise
Become more intelligent/wise
Make voice deeper
Make teeth pristine white
Be funnier
Look & be a man of class
Be an alpha male
Command respect
Learn to Make out VERY WELL
Learn to approach and # close
Be alot more social,
Have a cool small circle of friends that I enjoy being with
Get alot better at playing Rugby

I'll come up with more soon. Advice, comments and tips please Gentleman (and ladies ;P)

Ben
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thederekeffect1

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"Dont talk so much"
Keep talking. Just learn to listen more and give people enough time to respond.

"Get alot better at playing Rugby"
Not an attractive sport, but go for it if you like the sport. For yourself.
 

SilverSonnet

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So, today, I woke up, I have been using the clearasil range, and boy, it's working wonders, my skin is soft, practically clear, (on the bottle it DOES say see big changes in 3 days(it's only been 2 ;)))
Im conquering my SI objectives one at a time, and integrating them into my life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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