"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ben's Self-Improvement Journal

SilverSonnet

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
Well, that time has come for me to change my ways. After alot of moaning and time-wasting wishing, and a few kicks up the arse from Tom ;) I think it's time to start the beginning of the rest of my life :) the better life.

So, objectives.
Be less annoying
Dont talk so much
Change my body
Get a tan
Clear my skin
Revise
Become more intelligent/wise
Make voice deeper
Make teeth pristine white
Be funnier
Look & be a man of class
Be an alpha male
Command respect
Learn to Make out VERY WELL
Learn to approach and # close
Be alot more social,
Have a cool small circle of friends that I enjoy being with
Get alot better at playing Rugby

I'll come up with more soon. Advice, comments and tips please Gentleman (and ladies ;P)

Ben
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thederekeffect1

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"Dont talk so much"
Keep talking. Just learn to listen more and give people enough time to respond.

"Get alot better at playing Rugby"
Not an attractive sport, but go for it if you like the sport. For yourself.
 

SilverSonnet

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
So, today, I woke up, I have been using the clearasil range, and boy, it's working wonders, my skin is soft, practically clear, (on the bottle it DOES say see big changes in 3 days(it's only been 2 ;)))
Im conquering my SI objectives one at a time, and integrating them into my life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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