Benefits of Commitment

[BadBoy89]

In today’s climate, women lose their virginity at 17 or so. Women are encouraged and rewarded to belittle and abuse men once sex enters the picture. The court, public opinion, movies, music and tv all side with the woman in almost all cases. If a woman in a marriage isnt “happy”, she is taught by the system how to destroy the man financially and emotionally.

If a man has sex with a few women, it’s no big deal. But if he can get ONE woman to legally commit to him, he is THE MAN.

Can someone list the benefits for a man to commit to ONE woman forever?

 

[Plinco]

Marriage is good for children more than anyone else. The only other reason I can think of is it puts you in a situation whereby you don't have to go out of your way to have sex, therefore allowing you to focus on your work. Am I missing anything?

 

[roaming shark]

You are trying to analyze old order tradition with your new order lens. Marriage and monogamy had a specific latent purpose. And it was not about fun. You asking if there is a “benefit” is off base. It’s not about you or me. Traditionally , it was about ensuring a stable society. Ultimately, like my dad told me, marriage used to keep men more in line. There in lies the benefit, it’s not a benefit for the man individually/to you, it’s to society as a whole. Except now in 2021 the man must wrestle with the reality and stark risks that lay with this choice. You mentioned all the systems that are stacked up against him.

Get married for kids only IMO (marrying for fun or pleasure is ridiculous and shortsighted). LTR for support and life long partnership. Believe it or not, as you age, it can be quite difficult to fight loneliness; no matter how redpill you are, how much your deadlift is, or how much cash you hold. Because I’ve been chasing those 3 things for years, and I’m just as “lonely” as before. More work is needed, I’m not afraid to admit it.