"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sammo

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There are 2 kinds of people in this world.

People who are motivated by what they DO want and people who are motivated by what they DONT want.

95% are motivated by what they dont want.

"I dont want to be a looser", "I dont want to be fat", "I dont want to be picked on", etc, etc, etc.

You may think at this time that you get motivataed by what you do want, but think carefully about it. Is that true?

Believe.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nice post sammo something to think about when i get bored or would probably make for a good conversation with a girl

Me: If you were to think real hard about it would you say you were motivated by what you want for yourself or what you don't want? I mean when people are cruel to you or make fun of you are you motivated to go forward in life, or would you rather just reach to the future? With me I think I would be motivated by what I do want in life. I mean it just makes you feel so much more fulfilled when its not the circumstances around you that affect you, but what you do want for you future you know?
(example of how I would use it in a convo)
 

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its a fair idea, but dont bring it up to soon. its some pretty heavy stuff, and while it will make you look quite inteligent, if you bring it up too early you will scare her off. its best left untill a little later in the relationship
 

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I would never talk to a girl about this.

Look in to it a little deeper. You may THINK your motivated by what you do want but is what you want dictated by society? (IE. dictated by what you dont want)
 
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