"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Believe i turned the tables on a HB9

Cougar10033

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Ok LOL last night i came on here all upset about a HB 9 im seeing not calling me back. Well tonight me,her, my best friend and a bunch of her friends hung out. We went to a bar in her back yard and while there i met a girl i knew from HS she hugged me and we talked for about a half hour... the whole time i didnt not pay attention to the hb9... this girl left and i sat down the chick im interested in HB9 comes up and makes the comment, wow you know alot of people here must be nice..... so we change venues, go to another bar and we all walk in... still have not got to hang out with this chick.... I start talking to 2 hb 8's and a 7 for some reason things are clicking with all 3 and the girl who dissed me the night beforec comes over, i hug her and say whats up she says nadda and i continue talking with these 3.... next thing i know the hb9 grabs her friend and scrams out of the place..... Now in your guys opinions did i play this night right ??? I got 4 more chicks phone numbers and i believe i turned the tables on this HB 9
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't ask questions you already know the answer to it makes you look like an idiot.

Other than that you did well.
 

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Bleh i really turned the tables the HB 9 called me today and said she could not go out with me tonight because her family is having a get together... I believe i have f'd everything up with her now.
 

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if i were you i'd just keep on repeating that cycle!
that's alot of social value you are gaining by doing so.
she's the one being dissed for all the other girls!
that alone should sky rocket your value and make YOU
the prize..right?
:woo:
 

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Originally posted by Cougar10033
Bleh i really turned the tables the HB 9 called me today and said she could not go out with me tonight because her family is having a get together... I believe i have f'd everything up with her now.
Her loss. Work on those numbers you got.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cougar10033

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Thanks guys...My problem right now is deep down the nice guy stilll lurks.. I can play all ******d games and get other chicks numbers, be ****y funny, flirt, recognize tests and so on .. I felt good at first when i got all those numbers but then the nice guy started saying.. wow that chick u blew off is hot, nice, good education, popular, and well off... i shouldnt have done that. Then today when she calls to cancel i dont let her know it bothers me but it does... I agree i will work on those other numbers. How do you guys kill that stinking nice guy that keeps popping up.
 

Cougar10033

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ok well i have decided to next the HB9, she has way way way to many guy friends, she is way to high maitenance, i dont think its normal for a girl to be flown 1000 miles away to hang out with her guy friends.... I feel like **** because i believe i was suffering from oneitis big time with her. I did set up a date with one of the chicks i met the other night so that took the sting away.
 
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