"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Believe i turned the tables on a HB9

Cougar10033

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Ok LOL last night i came on here all upset about a HB 9 im seeing not calling me back. Well tonight me,her, my best friend and a bunch of her friends hung out. We went to a bar in her back yard and while there i met a girl i knew from HS she hugged me and we talked for about a half hour... the whole time i didnt not pay attention to the hb9... this girl left and i sat down the chick im interested in HB9 comes up and makes the comment, wow you know alot of people here must be nice..... so we change venues, go to another bar and we all walk in... still have not got to hang out with this chick.... I start talking to 2 hb 8's and a 7 for some reason things are clicking with all 3 and the girl who dissed me the night beforec comes over, i hug her and say whats up she says nadda and i continue talking with these 3.... next thing i know the hb9 grabs her friend and scrams out of the place..... Now in your guys opinions did i play this night right ??? I got 4 more chicks phone numbers and i believe i turned the tables on this HB 9
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't ask questions you already know the answer to it makes you look like an idiot.

Other than that you did well.
 

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Bleh i really turned the tables the HB 9 called me today and said she could not go out with me tonight because her family is having a get together... I believe i have f'd everything up with her now.
 

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if i were you i'd just keep on repeating that cycle!
that's alot of social value you are gaining by doing so.
she's the one being dissed for all the other girls!
that alone should sky rocket your value and make YOU
the prize..right?
:woo:
 

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Originally posted by Cougar10033
Bleh i really turned the tables the HB 9 called me today and said she could not go out with me tonight because her family is having a get together... I believe i have f'd everything up with her now.
Her loss. Work on those numbers you got.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks guys...My problem right now is deep down the nice guy stilll lurks.. I can play all ******d games and get other chicks numbers, be ****y funny, flirt, recognize tests and so on .. I felt good at first when i got all those numbers but then the nice guy started saying.. wow that chick u blew off is hot, nice, good education, popular, and well off... i shouldnt have done that. Then today when she calls to cancel i dont let her know it bothers me but it does... I agree i will work on those other numbers. How do you guys kill that stinking nice guy that keeps popping up.
 

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ok well i have decided to next the HB9, she has way way way to many guy friends, she is way to high maitenance, i dont think its normal for a girl to be flown 1000 miles away to hang out with her guy friends.... I feel like **** because i believe i was suffering from oneitis big time with her. I did set up a date with one of the chicks i met the other night so that took the sting away.
 
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