Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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being too stocky

theNEWDJ

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I am 19 yrs old 5'7 and about 155 lbs. To become a beast at my sport id like to gain 30 more pounds. Problem is im already pretty short and stocky looking. I think that i will kind of look like a freak if I keep on putting on muscle mass. Although I will be more alpha and I will be able to stand up for myself more. And If I keep getting stronger no one will mess with me. I just think girls wont find my body attractive if I am too stocky. I dunno what do u guys think?
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJinTraining06

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theNEWDJ said:
I am 19 yrs old 5'7 and about 155 lbs. To become a beast at my sport id like to gain 30 more pounds. Problem is im already pretty short and stocky looking. I think that i will kind of look like a freak if I keep on putting on muscle mass. Although I will be more alpha and I will be able to stand up for myself more. And If I keep getting stronger no one will mess with me. I just think girls wont find my body attractive if I am too stocky. I dunno what do u guys think?
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Ive heard alot of girls say they like a few extra lbs. Other girls love the flat stomach toned skinny guy. I def think it varies. I hear u bout the stocky thing tho, im 5'6'' 157. I used to look much better at 140-145 i think. But at someone recently told me i look more grown up with the weight. So I think i might stay at this weight but make sure im more toned so its not blubbery looking.
 

PigAdlemPimp

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Think about, Rick, he is short and stocky, very few dudes will mess with him, yet a couple have knocked him to the ground in recent times by punching him in the head, the thing is he is 18 and has fvcked 3 HB8's 16 year olds in the past couple of months, this should not be a problem for you if it isn't for him. :cool:
 
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