"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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being too stocky

theNEWDJ

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I am 19 yrs old 5'7 and about 155 lbs. To become a beast at my sport id like to gain 30 more pounds. Problem is im already pretty short and stocky looking. I think that i will kind of look like a freak if I keep on putting on muscle mass. Although I will be more alpha and I will be able to stand up for myself more. And If I keep getting stronger no one will mess with me. I just think girls wont find my body attractive if I am too stocky. I dunno what do u guys think?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJinTraining06

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theNEWDJ said:
I am 19 yrs old 5'7 and about 155 lbs. To become a beast at my sport id like to gain 30 more pounds. Problem is im already pretty short and stocky looking. I think that i will kind of look like a freak if I keep on putting on muscle mass. Although I will be more alpha and I will be able to stand up for myself more. And If I keep getting stronger no one will mess with me. I just think girls wont find my body attractive if I am too stocky. I dunno what do u guys think?
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Ive heard alot of girls say they like a few extra lbs. Other girls love the flat stomach toned skinny guy. I def think it varies. I hear u bout the stocky thing tho, im 5'6'' 157. I used to look much better at 140-145 i think. But at someone recently told me i look more grown up with the weight. So I think i might stay at this weight but make sure im more toned so its not blubbery looking.
 

PigAdlemPimp

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Think about, Rick, he is short and stocky, very few dudes will mess with him, yet a couple have knocked him to the ground in recent times by punching him in the head, the thing is he is 18 and has fvcked 3 HB8's 16 year olds in the past couple of months, this should not be a problem for you if it isn't for him. :cool:
 
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