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theNEWDJ

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I am 19 yrs old 5'7 and about 155 lbs. To become a beast at my sport id like to gain 30 more pounds. Problem is im already pretty short and stocky looking. I think that i will kind of look like a freak if I keep on putting on muscle mass. Although I will be more alpha and I will be able to stand up for myself more. And If I keep getting stronger no one will mess with me. I just think girls wont find my body attractive if I am too stocky. I dunno what do u guys think?
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DJinTraining06

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theNEWDJ said:
I am 19 yrs old 5'7 and about 155 lbs. To become a beast at my sport id like to gain 30 more pounds. Problem is im already pretty short and stocky looking. I think that i will kind of look like a freak if I keep on putting on muscle mass. Although I will be more alpha and I will be able to stand up for myself more. And If I keep getting stronger no one will mess with me. I just think girls wont find my body attractive if I am too stocky. I dunno what do u guys think?
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Ive heard alot of girls say they like a few extra lbs. Other girls love the flat stomach toned skinny guy. I def think it varies. I hear u bout the stocky thing tho, im 5'6'' 157. I used to look much better at 140-145 i think. But at someone recently told me i look more grown up with the weight. So I think i might stay at this weight but make sure im more toned so its not blubbery looking.
 

PigAdlemPimp

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Think about, Rick, he is short and stocky, very few dudes will mess with him, yet a couple have knocked him to the ground in recent times by punching him in the head, the thing is he is 18 and has fvcked 3 HB8's 16 year olds in the past couple of months, this should not be a problem for you if it isn't for him. :cool:
 
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