"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being the rebound guy.

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How do you fellas feel about this?

I have a friend who just got out of a relation**** and has been calling me. We have been having fun and we click, I am fine with it either way it goes.

I get to have a great time with a cutie who smokes me out and there are tons of IOI's and lots of kino. Clearly she gets an ego boost and whatever.

I am letting the cards fall where they may and just having a good time.

Personally I am looking at it as a win win. :woo:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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keep doing what you are doing...let her come to you. The fact she is now single and you are not trying to jump her bones is making her enjoy it more.
 
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I never take women recently out of relationships seriously. Chances are she'll go running back to the ex 80-90% of the time if he calls. It's good that she's calling you. Play it cool and let her come to you.
 
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If you want this to last, you're going to have to go hot and cold on her. Have days when you don't return her calls/texts, become suddenly unavailable, etc. She may try to push for you to become exclusive- do not accept this for a few months- until you can be sure that you are more than an ego boost for her.

Girls enter into rebound situations with full expectation of dumping the guy once they know that he's willing to commit. Don't let her do this to you- remain a challenge and confound her expectations.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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do it for the team!
 
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Like I said, I could care less. If she wants to run back to her ex more power to her. Just havin a good time.
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Couldn't...it's couldn't care less..... >_<
 
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Sounds like you have a pretty solid grasp on what you want and reality of the situation.

Play on, playa ;)
 
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Yeah had a great start to the New Year too!

Edit: On a side note a girl who I had been trying to get saw me with this chick and started trying to ****block me all night. Where she was once always at arms length last night she was very close and I believe I heard her say something nasty about the chick I was with, totally turned me off to her. Unbelievable the behavior she was displaying.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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