Being the rebound guy.

[HalfAddict]

How do you fellas feel about this?

I have a friend who just got out of a relation**** and has been calling me. We have been having fun and we click, I am fine with it either way it goes.

I get to have a great time with a cutie who smokes me out and there are tons of IOI's and lots of kino. Clearly she gets an ego boost and whatever.

I am letting the cards fall where they may and just having a good time.

Personally I am looking at it as a win win. :woo:

 

[window]

keep doing what you are doing...let her come to you. The fact she is now single and you are not trying to jump her bones is making her enjoy it more.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

I never take women recently out of relationships seriously. Chances are she'll go running back to the ex 80-90% of the time if he calls. It's good that she's calling you. Play it cool and let her come to you.

 

[Jeffst1980]

If you want this to last, you're going to have to go hot and cold on her. Have days when you don't return her calls/texts, become suddenly unavailable, etc. She may try to push for you to become exclusive- do not accept this for a few months- until you can be sure that you are more than an ego boost for her.

Girls enter into rebound situations with full expectation of dumping the guy once they know that he's willing to commit. Don't let her do this to you- remain a challenge and confound her expectations.

 

[HalfAddict]

Like I said, I could care less. If she wants to run back to her ex more power to her. Just havin a good time.

 

[PokerStar]

do it for the team!

 

[women haze]

Like I said, I could care less. If she wants to run back to her ex more power to her. Just havin a good time.

Couldn't...it's couldn't care less..... >_<

 

[HalfAddict]

So I suppose I could not care less, because one should not type contractions right?

 

[Serialized3]

Sounds like you have a pretty solid grasp on what you want and reality of the situation.

Play on, playa

 

[HalfAddict]

Yeah had a great start to the New Year too!

Edit: On a side note a girl who I had been trying to get saw me with this chick and started trying to ****block me all night. Where she was once always at arms length last night she was very close and I believe I heard her say something nasty about the chick I was with, totally turned me off to her. Unbelievable the behavior she was displaying.