"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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being taken more seriously

nubian-knight

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among my friends, im the guy evreyone likes to be around n chill with but im also the guy ppl like to poke fun at. not real bullying or insults, just typical bull**** like how i cant lift alot at the gym or that i have a little limp when i walk u kno, stupid sh.it


i really dont care since its all in good fun and its my boys, but this reputation has gotten me at "cute" status among the girls at my school since i am never one to really rail on anyone and am often considered kind of goofy


im just curious as to how i can be taken more seriously? dont get me wrong, if someone pisses me off for real i wont hestate to knock them in the face but playful chirping i dont mind, i just want to be take more seriously


any suggestions?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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d9930380

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**** them

Believe me, this stigma doesn't go away until you make it go away. And even though you don't mind it, it doesn't make you very attractive to girls.

You just need to play them at there own games. Make sure you have plenty of good not-nasty insults for your "friends" planned and when they begin to rip on you hit them with a few.

People generally goof on people in front of other people to make themselves look better (I bet they don't do it in private), so if they know you will come back at them then the reason for doing it goes and therefore so do the insults.

Don't be an easy target.
 

James Bondage

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Yeah I totally agree.

If you give as good as you get, (usually) it will make them think twice.
 

shydude

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Make fun of em!! Act cooler and talk to them face to face!! then follow m home and kill one of the friends that plays with u!!! That way they wil see how dangerious u r!!! COmen man!! And dont live any evidence behind becouse u might go to jail for life!!! My dad is aq lawayer so call me if u in jail!!!
 
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