I am white and i get shot down by white b!tches all the time.
Asian b!tches also stereotype white guys too. I remember talking to group of asians in high school, they thought i was hairy, smelly, stupid, wannabe asian, anime watching geek.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Asian b!tches also stereotype white guys too. I remember talking to group of asians in high school, they thought i was hairy, smelly, stupid, wannabe asian, anime watching geek.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Littledude
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I'm Chinese/Vietnamese mix, mostly Viet though, and I grew up in the white suburbs. I've been around white people so much that sometimes I forget that I'm vietnamese.
Being asian doesn't mean you can't get white chicks, it just means that white chicks probably won't walk up and go to you, especially if it's in a place where there aren't a lot of asians (south Jersey).
If you work your DJ game on a girl for awhile, almost any girl will like you, no matter if they are white/black/asian or anything. Remember, girls are attracted to how guys make them feel and not just their looks.
Being asian doesn't mean you can't get white chicks, it just means that white chicks probably won't walk up and go to you, especially if it's in a place where there aren't a lot of asians (south Jersey).
If you work your DJ game on a girl for awhile, almost any girl will like you, no matter if they are white/black/asian or anything. Remember, girls are attracted to how guys make them feel and not just their looks.
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Did you guys notice his age?
It's not a race/DJ problem.
It's a BOY vs MAN problem. Once he becomes a MAN and stops following trends, he'll be fine.
It's not a race/DJ problem.
It's a BOY vs MAN problem. Once he becomes a MAN and stops following trends, he'll be fine.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Don Juanabbe
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Well, I'm a honky assed white dude and Asians don't look twice at me. It's because they are racist.
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Or ugly.
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Originally posted by zentraveller
Or ugly.
I'll second that motion.
JT47319
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As one of the few active Asian PUAs around here, especially smack dab here in superficial LA, I think it's delusional to think that race doesn't affect attraction. It does and for Asians, it's a negative factor.
No ifs ands or buts about it. It's like being on a treadmill with the incline set to 10%. Yeah you can jog it, but it IS simply more difficult. An Asian PUA just has to have MORE game than say a white dude. You can still pick up the hotties, you just have to be better at it than everyone else.
Of course, I also think trying to explain this or whine about is useless because it won't help you out in the field. And in fact can be detrimental because if you dwell on it, it can start to make you too negative and otherwise affect your inner game.
No ifs ands or buts about it. It's like being on a treadmill with the incline set to 10%. Yeah you can jog it, but it IS simply more difficult. An Asian PUA just has to have MORE game than say a white dude. You can still pick up the hotties, you just have to be better at it than everyone else.
Of course, I also think trying to explain this or whine about is useless because it won't help you out in the field. And in fact can be detrimental because if you dwell on it, it can start to make you too negative and otherwise affect your inner game.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Face it Tom. Don't be a smart-ass -- you ARE a boy. You're EIGHTEEN, and very insecure. It's okay to admit that to yourself. And I agree with what JT has said - at best, being an Asian male in a racially biased society is a neutral thing (ask a black man how that feels, except only in his case, he's discriminated against socially, professionally, and legally, even though he is desired sexually) - often, it is also a negative, depending on who you're dealing with and how racist they are.
Anyway, there are steps being taken by Asian people all over the place (I'm not at liberty to go deep into this) to enhance the image of Asian men, and it's only a matter of time before they will recognize. Mark my words. In about 5-10 years time, you at age 23-28 will have to beat white bytches off with a stick.
Until then, just shut your trap about your ethnicity, WORK OUT/fill out that skinny-ass body of yours, and just learn to grow/age into that young body/mind of yours.
Anyway, there are steps being taken by Asian people all over the place (I'm not at liberty to go deep into this) to enhance the image of Asian men, and it's only a matter of time before they will recognize. Mark my words. In about 5-10 years time, you at age 23-28 will have to beat white bytches off with a stick.
Until then, just shut your trap about your ethnicity, WORK OUT/fill out that skinny-ass body of yours, and just learn to grow/age into that young body/mind of yours.
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