"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being Stalked

stevey_2000

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Recently i introduced myself (a street approach) to a 7 i'd say, then it went onto her starting to show up at my buddies (they knew each other, small world eh?) place and started asking about me, i turned up while she was there and since she has got my number (not sure who off), starting to show up at my local pub while i'm there and other scary tactics include even thinking of getting a season ticket near where i sit at my local football team!!,

has any of my fellow DJ's come across this before and what did you do to get rid??

btw. i'm also seeing a girl which makes it slightly harder!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LoveBOT

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I LAUGH AT THAT....that's not stalking....this is stalking

This freak disabled girl has got my number once from somebody and left like 15 anwser phone messages followed by txts.

So after 2 weeks of this **** i get a new number....then she finds my email address on msn and i have to block her...then she continues to email me which i'm in the process of blocking her.

She follows me to my fav nightclub EVERY fri and saturday night,she gives me **** and then turns my friends against me

Now she is moving in next to me like 1min away.

NOW THAT IS STALKING.
 

DJDanny

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question fellas. Have either of you actually told the person in question that you just weren't interested? Changing your number seems rather extreme.
 

LoveBOT

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Originally posted by DJDanny
question fellas. Have either of you actually told the person in question that you just weren't interested? Changing your number seems rather extreme.

Yeah i told her were to go in no uncertain terms.

But she keeps getting her male friends to bug me and her female freinds too.

She comes over to me and starts crying about why i don't like her.
 

ApocalypseCow2

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At least you guys are getting stalked by *girls* :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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Originally posted by stevey_2000
starting to show up at my local pub while i'm there and other scary tactics include even thinking of getting a season ticket near where i sit at my local football team!!,



btw. i'm also seeing a girl which makes it slightly harder!!
dude when she shows up to a game and sees you sittin with your honey , she will disappear after that.
 
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