"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Being Stalked

stevey_2000

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Recently i introduced myself (a street approach) to a 7 i'd say, then it went onto her starting to show up at my buddies (they knew each other, small world eh?) place and started asking about me, i turned up while she was there and since she has got my number (not sure who off), starting to show up at my local pub while i'm there and other scary tactics include even thinking of getting a season ticket near where i sit at my local football team!!,

has any of my fellow DJ's come across this before and what did you do to get rid??

btw. i'm also seeing a girl which makes it slightly harder!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LoveBOT

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I LAUGH AT THAT....that's not stalking....this is stalking

This freak disabled girl has got my number once from somebody and left like 15 anwser phone messages followed by txts.

So after 2 weeks of this **** i get a new number....then she finds my email address on msn and i have to block her...then she continues to email me which i'm in the process of blocking her.

She follows me to my fav nightclub EVERY fri and saturday night,she gives me **** and then turns my friends against me

Now she is moving in next to me like 1min away.

NOW THAT IS STALKING.
 

DJDanny

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question fellas. Have either of you actually told the person in question that you just weren't interested? Changing your number seems rather extreme.
 

LoveBOT

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Originally posted by DJDanny
question fellas. Have either of you actually told the person in question that you just weren't interested? Changing your number seems rather extreme.

Yeah i told her were to go in no uncertain terms.

But she keeps getting her male friends to bug me and her female freinds too.

She comes over to me and starts crying about why i don't like her.
 

ApocalypseCow2

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At least you guys are getting stalked by *girls* :rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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penkitten

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Originally posted by stevey_2000
starting to show up at my local pub while i'm there and other scary tactics include even thinking of getting a season ticket near where i sit at my local football team!!,



btw. i'm also seeing a girl which makes it slightly harder!!
dude when she shows up to a game and sees you sittin with your honey , she will disappear after that.
 
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