As long as he agrees, it all good.I just am wondering if it’s unhealthy to be this way. I started dating a year after my divorce and trying all kinds of relationship dynamics. But overall i really just want to be single and have a part time BF. But men don’t seem down for that. I date older men generally. The two BFs that are my age (39) both want way more than I do. Not kids but moving in and the whole deal.
Older men seek companionship and intimacy, they generally don't care about sex as much as the younger guys do. No 22 year old is going to ask his 21 year old girlfriend to "move in" and "fully commit", but he will want sex asap, while older guys need the closeness and togetherness to make the relaitonship work.
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