Being shorter and getting respect

[Crissco]

I noticed in certain situations I get less respect then people taller then me. Im 5'5. How do you shorter guys handle situations when they arise, and what do you do to DHV and stand out above those taller then you?

Crissco

 

[wait_out]

Certain situations? You may want to elaborate.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Im 5'5.

And I'm skinny. Anyone that does not like it can fvck off. Most people are morons and respect from them means nothing. Stop caring, and people will respect that you genuinely don't give a fvck.

 

[r0cky]

You have a complex. You believe that people are more likely to be disrespectful towards you because you're short. In reality, it is your self-conciousness about your physical shortcomings that makes you become more defensive towards people.

By noticing signs of disrespect, you're magnifying them AND you're only feeding your negative beliefs about yourself. Try to only notice the times when people respect you and be apreciative of those time, this will magnify them and will create a whole new set of positive beliefs in you.

The only people that get offended are the ones that want to be offended.

 

[Crissco]

You have a complex. You believe that people are more likely to be disrespectful towards you because you're short. In reality, it is your self-conciousness about your physical shortcomings that makes you become more defensive towards people.

By noticing signs of disrespect, you're magnifying them AND you're only feeding your negative beliefs about yourself. Try to only notice the times when people respect you and be apreciative of those time, this will magnify them and will create a whole new set of positive beliefs in you.

The only people that get offended are the ones that want to be offended.

Ill definitely try that. Thanks Rock