"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Being Sexual with Women

R.U.G.

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in order to be sexual with a woman you must first be comfortable and unapologetic with your own sexuality. i know full grown adults that are still not completely comfortable in their own skin

years of feminine conditioning has shamed men into hiding their sexuality and making them feel that its wrong. you need to reawaken your instincts. stop the porn, stop the execessiv masterbation.

start being honest with yourself. start owning your manhood.

"why are you looking at me like that?"

"i was just thinking about fvcking you on the hood of my car"

let your nuts hang

Yea? You'll get no where like that in NYC aside from a drink thrown at your face, a smack, a bouncer throw you outside or something else.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks for the great replies. I'm going to be a little more bold, try to focus on letting the girls talk, and put these tips into practice.

I also put How to Win Friends and Influence People at the top of my reading list.
You can listen for free with an audible trial. Just remember to cancel before the 30 days. Or, you can prob. find it online for free in pdf version.
 

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Thanks for the great replies. I'm going to be a little more bold, try to focus on letting the girls talk, and put these tips into practice.

I also put How to Win Friends and Influence People at the top of my reading list.
Bro all this advice given will likely confuse you.

‘Don’t do this, do do that.’
‘It’s easy to smash on the 1st date.’
‘Just let her talk and she will take off her clothes.’
‘Just listen and she will take off her clothes.’
‘Keep it light. Keep it simple and she will take off her clothes.’
‘Don’t be serious.’
‘Let her wonder about you.’
‘Talk about cooking’
‘Talk about current events.’
‘Talk about celebrities.’
‘Girls love mystery.’
‘Girls love challenge.’
‘Be bold.’
‘Be aggressive.’

Hate to say it, but pretty much all nonsense. And the book “how to win friends and influence people.’ Anyone with half a Brain would see right through it.

All you got to do is be presentable and don’t say dumb things. To ‘purposely’ be a ‘mystery’ on the off chance she ‘may decide’ to have sex with you is a suckers game. You’d better off paying her to have sex.
 

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Bro all this advice given will likely confuse you.

‘Don’t do this, do do that.’
‘It’s easy to smash on the 1st date.’
‘Just let her talk and she will take off her clothes.’
‘Just listen and she will take off her clothes.’
‘Keep it light. Keep it simple and she will take off her clothes.’
‘Don’t be serious.’
‘Let her wonder about you.’
‘Talk about cooking’
‘Talk about current events.’
‘Talk about celebrities.’
‘Girls love mystery.’
‘Girls love challenge.’
‘Be bold.’
‘Be aggressive.’

Hate to say it, but pretty much all nonsense. And the book “how to win friends and influence people.’ Anyone with half a Brain would see right through it.

All you got to do is be presentable and don’t say dumb things. To ‘purposely’ be a ‘mystery’ on the off chance she ‘may decide’ to have sex with you is a suckers game. You’d better off paying her to have sex.
There's different advice to apply, but I think I can adopt pieces of it to add to my own style. I still don't feel comfortable getting too sexual from the get go and it looks like I don't have to.

I'm pulling more from girls, adding a little Kino when I feel it's appropriate, and making sure I go for the kiss on the first date. I'll be sexual once I've gotten the girl worked up.
 

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KINO....

Read about it and learn it. Some of the best sexual communication is done not by what you say but how you touch. Trust me.

Always escalate... Always touch...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maybe some of the suggestions here will help but focus on building your status mainly and the girls will come at you the same way your ex wife had.

Read my past posts for detail/examples.
 

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Thanks for the great replies. I'm going to be a little more bold, try to focus on letting the girls talk, and put these tips into practice.

I also put How to Win Friends and Influence People at the top of my reading list.
One of my all time favorite books...have read that maybe 20 times cover to cover
 
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