You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This forum is a great learning tool, but welcome to the mindset of being a realist. It’s a new reality in and of itself, a sign of maturity, and completely authentic.
It advocates getting in relationships, which I just want sex, but regardless I am done trying to ****ing "game"
I have no problem telling anybody that I am a flag waving Trump supporter and a "Five Point Calvinist" anti abortion,anti gay marriage,pro gun conservative..I could give a fvck what anybody thinks.I have had no problem meeting women at all in my life and have had loads of fun..and may I add having a blast in retirement do what the fvck you want and be yourself..you will get more respect that way..don't give in one inch.I have had many women try and change me and my views to no avail,when they realize they can't change or move me they are shocked.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Well that aint gonna happen for me. I'm like freebird. I cant change.
