I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This forum is a great learning tool, but welcome to the mindset of being a realist. It’s a new reality in and of itself, a sign of maturity, and completely authentic.
It advocates getting in relationships, which I just want sex, but regardless I am done trying to ****ing "game"
I have no problem telling anybody that I am a flag waving Trump supporter and a "Five Point Calvinist" anti abortion,anti gay marriage,pro gun conservative..I could give a fvck what anybody thinks.I have had no problem meeting women at all in my life and have had loads of fun..and may I add having a blast in retirement do what the fvck you want and be yourself..you will get more respect that way..don't give in one inch.I have had many women try and change me and my views to no avail,when they realize they can't change or move me they are shocked.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Well that aint gonna happen for me. I'm like freebird. I cant change.
