"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Being real with women.

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Okay I just like to make sure how you know when to be real with women besides with you get blown off constantly. I am real with this girl who blown off for month shes like opening upto me now saying no she just prefers getting to know a dude before meeting so I am opening up to her and asking her if she just being nice or something its seems to be going decent so far. but how do you know (I guess all women different) about when to just be real and honest if they play games or test you and tell them to stop?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ok she didn't reply how do you get her to reply when I said you weren't just saying stuff to be nice to me a use for attention just seeing what kind of women you are and be honest and not lie about stuff.

So She wont reply how do I get her to reply?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ok where do I read about this which section?? This girl is stressed out now LOL I told her to chill out
 

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Go to the bottom left of this page and click Dj Bible.... you have a lot to learn my man. Learning the principles behind the way women work will help you with your basic questions
 

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Dgwizdal said:
Go to the bottom left of this page and click Dj Bible.... you have a lot to learn my man. Learning the principles behind the way women work will help you with your basic questions

Yep,I agree.


It's NOT like you think,man. You're not going to go read the DJ Bible,then turn around and get this girl....it ain't like that. It ain't about some trick or gimmick you can just pick up and go get a girl.....it's about a whole change of MIND regarding expressing yourself as a man and towards women.


So if you're looking for some quick fix so you can go back to that site,log on and instantly get that girl,you're in for a not so pleasant surprise.
 

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There is no "real". This is a game. A completely different reality if you will. Thats why people discuss this in terms of the RedPill-BluePill duality in the matrix. because it truly is a completely different dimension. These girl do not want to be "real", both because they enjoy the drama and these games they play are wired into them and are their way of testing to find a quality man. It's a very zen thing and if you know anything about Buddhism, there can be a lot of parallel's drawn between the two. You must completely destroy the reality you have grown accustomed to in order to become "enlightened" and see things as they really are.

I do find that you can be a bit more "real" and straightforward once you have won a girl over and are seeing her for a while. Some of the bullsh!t DOES go away..HOWEVER. You must NEVER let your guard down.
 

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ok she didn't reply how do you get her to reply when I said you weren't just saying stuff to be nice to me a use for attention just seeing what kind of women you are and be honest and not lie about stuff.

So She wont reply how do I get her to reply?

This girl is stressed out now LOL I told her to chill out


There seems to be a gap in the conversation there. Did you text her again? Whatever you are doing to stress her out is wrong.

In regard to when to be real, it depends on what you're thinking in the first place and also how she is going to react to what you say. Try to keep things light and fun.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oh ok yeah I pretty much was being real with her and telling her I want girl to be chill like dude n stuff and was saying im not into games and she said she was stressed out so I was like be honest not good at texting I would like take you dinner she said yeah maybe how do I get a girl to WANT to go dinner with me? Also when is it good to flirt sexy with pics n stuff????
 

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Dude... read the bible... and please start using PERIODS. We really do want to help you but these run-on sentences are hard to read. For real.
 
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Sorry just wondering when to be sexy and how to make a girl say YES I want to go dinner instead of maybe or sure maybe or well see.
 
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