"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Okay I just like to make sure how you know when to be real with women besides with you get blown off constantly. I am real with this girl who blown off for month shes like opening upto me now saying no she just prefers getting to know a dude before meeting so I am opening up to her and asking her if she just being nice or something its seems to be going decent so far. but how do you know (I guess all women different) about when to just be real and honest if they play games or test you and tell them to stop?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok she didn't reply how do you get her to reply when I said you weren't just saying stuff to be nice to me a use for attention just seeing what kind of women you are and be honest and not lie about stuff.

So She wont reply how do I get her to reply?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok where do I read about this which section?? This girl is stressed out now LOL I told her to chill out
 
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Go to the bottom left of this page and click Dj Bible.... you have a lot to learn my man. Learning the principles behind the way women work will help you with your basic questions
 
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Dgwizdal said:
Go to the bottom left of this page and click Dj Bible.... you have a lot to learn my man. Learning the principles behind the way women work will help you with your basic questions
Click to expand...

Yep,I agree.


It's NOT like you think,man. You're not going to go read the DJ Bible,then turn around and get this girl....it ain't like that. It ain't about some trick or gimmick you can just pick up and go get a girl.....it's about a whole change of MIND regarding expressing yourself as a man and towards women.


So if you're looking for some quick fix so you can go back to that site,log on and instantly get that girl,you're in for a not so pleasant surprise.
 
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There is no "real". This is a game. A completely different reality if you will. Thats why people discuss this in terms of the RedPill-BluePill duality in the matrix. because it truly is a completely different dimension. These girl do not want to be "real", both because they enjoy the drama and these games they play are wired into them and are their way of testing to find a quality man. It's a very zen thing and if you know anything about Buddhism, there can be a lot of parallel's drawn between the two. You must completely destroy the reality you have grown accustomed to in order to become "enlightened" and see things as they really are.

I do find that you can be a bit more "real" and straightforward once you have won a girl over and are seeing her for a while. Some of the bullsh!t DOES go away..HOWEVER. You must NEVER let your guard down.
 
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ok she didn't reply how do you get her to reply when I said you weren't just saying stuff to be nice to me a use for attention just seeing what kind of women you are and be honest and not lie about stuff.

So She wont reply how do I get her to reply?

This girl is stressed out now LOL I told her to chill out

There seems to be a gap in the conversation there. Did you text her again? Whatever you are doing to stress her out is wrong.

In regard to when to be real, it depends on what you're thinking in the first place and also how she is going to react to what you say. Try to keep things light and fun.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oh ok yeah I pretty much was being real with her and telling her I want girl to be chill like dude n stuff and was saying im not into games and she said she was stressed out so I was like be honest not good at texting I would like take you dinner she said yeah maybe how do I get a girl to WANT to go dinner with me? Also when is it good to flirt sexy with pics n stuff????
 
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Dude... read the bible... and please start using PERIODS. We really do want to help you but these run-on sentences are hard to read. For real.
 
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Sorry just wondering when to be sexy and how to make a girl say YES I want to go dinner instead of maybe or sure maybe or well see.
 
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