"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BEING PREPARED - This is serious

guywhoneedshelp

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I would like to take a minute to remind everyone to be prepared.

Right now my house is a mess and I have 2 flat tires. However I just got an e-mail from a woman I met on Halloween who lives in Texas, but has an 18 hour layover today in my area as she is a flight attendant.

I never in a million years would expect to hear from her again really, but that's what happens. You meet a girl and you think she would not even bother with you, considering she lives a thousand miles away. But it is totally counter-intuitive, because when there is distance between you 2, she is challenged and she is going to miss you.

She has e-mailed me her phone number and suggested we hang out. I'm stuck at work til 4 in which I will go home, fix my flat tires, and throw a bunch of sh!t into my boiler room so my house is prepared for her. (No time to fold the laundry, just throw it in a spare room.)

Just a friendly reminder for all of you out there, be prepared. You never know what women may call.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DarkShade

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I hear you on being prepared. I missed a golden opportunity last weekend because I forgot my latex buddies, but I digress. I spent a few hours this week reorganizing and cleaning my bedroom and making the following adjustments:

  • Lighting - Added soft white Christmas lights around the room and focusing the general view to the bed. Just enough light to see but dark enough to add sensuality of the room.
  • Sound - Rearranged my stereo system to focus its power towards the bed for some bumpity-bump while I bumpity-bump.
  • Bed - Bought new black satin sheets to go along with a mint green comforter and pillowcases. Nice effect with the white lights reflecting off of the black sheets.

I'm prepped and ready to go for the weekend. :up:
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Well it may be a good idea to eventually work on my current bedroom and living room issues, but as for now:

8:44AM I send her - "My favorite flight attendant! I tried calling you but it wasnt going through...get back to me when you can. ~Kevin"

11:14AM She sends me - "I had my phone off cuz I'm flying. I have one more short flight then we're done. I'll give u a call when I get to my hotel."

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Where may this lead? Hmm...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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