"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BEING PREPARED - This is serious

guywhoneedshelp

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I would like to take a minute to remind everyone to be prepared.

Right now my house is a mess and I have 2 flat tires. However I just got an e-mail from a woman I met on Halloween who lives in Texas, but has an 18 hour layover today in my area as she is a flight attendant.

I never in a million years would expect to hear from her again really, but that's what happens. You meet a girl and you think she would not even bother with you, considering she lives a thousand miles away. But it is totally counter-intuitive, because when there is distance between you 2, she is challenged and she is going to miss you.

She has e-mailed me her phone number and suggested we hang out. I'm stuck at work til 4 in which I will go home, fix my flat tires, and throw a bunch of sh!t into my boiler room so my house is prepared for her. (No time to fold the laundry, just throw it in a spare room.)

Just a friendly reminder for all of you out there, be prepared. You never know what women may call.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DarkShade

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I hear you on being prepared. I missed a golden opportunity last weekend because I forgot my latex buddies, but I digress. I spent a few hours this week reorganizing and cleaning my bedroom and making the following adjustments:

  • Lighting - Added soft white Christmas lights around the room and focusing the general view to the bed. Just enough light to see but dark enough to add sensuality of the room.
  • Sound - Rearranged my stereo system to focus its power towards the bed for some bumpity-bump while I bumpity-bump.
  • Bed - Bought new black satin sheets to go along with a mint green comforter and pillowcases. Nice effect with the white lights reflecting off of the black sheets.

I'm prepped and ready to go for the weekend. :up:
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Well it may be a good idea to eventually work on my current bedroom and living room issues, but as for now:

8:44AM I send her - "My favorite flight attendant! I tried calling you but it wasnt going through...get back to me when you can. ~Kevin"

11:14AM She sends me - "I had my phone off cuz I'm flying. I have one more short flight then we're done. I'll give u a call when I get to my hotel."

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Where may this lead? Hmm...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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