"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BEING PREPARED - This is serious

guywhoneedshelp

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I would like to take a minute to remind everyone to be prepared.

Right now my house is a mess and I have 2 flat tires. However I just got an e-mail from a woman I met on Halloween who lives in Texas, but has an 18 hour layover today in my area as she is a flight attendant.

I never in a million years would expect to hear from her again really, but that's what happens. You meet a girl and you think she would not even bother with you, considering she lives a thousand miles away. But it is totally counter-intuitive, because when there is distance between you 2, she is challenged and she is going to miss you.

She has e-mailed me her phone number and suggested we hang out. I'm stuck at work til 4 in which I will go home, fix my flat tires, and throw a bunch of sh!t into my boiler room so my house is prepared for her. (No time to fold the laundry, just throw it in a spare room.)

Just a friendly reminder for all of you out there, be prepared. You never know what women may call.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DarkShade

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I hear you on being prepared. I missed a golden opportunity last weekend because I forgot my latex buddies, but I digress. I spent a few hours this week reorganizing and cleaning my bedroom and making the following adjustments:

  • Lighting - Added soft white Christmas lights around the room and focusing the general view to the bed. Just enough light to see but dark enough to add sensuality of the room.
  • Sound - Rearranged my stereo system to focus its power towards the bed for some bumpity-bump while I bumpity-bump.
  • Bed - Bought new black satin sheets to go along with a mint green comforter and pillowcases. Nice effect with the white lights reflecting off of the black sheets.

I'm prepped and ready to go for the weekend. :up:
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Well it may be a good idea to eventually work on my current bedroom and living room issues, but as for now:

8:44AM I send her - "My favorite flight attendant! I tried calling you but it wasnt going through...get back to me when you can. ~Kevin"

11:14AM She sends me - "I had my phone off cuz I'm flying. I have one more short flight then we're done. I'll give u a call when I get to my hotel."

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Where may this lead? Hmm...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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