"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When was the last time you guys were obviously picked up, and what happened? How often has this happened?

I'd say I get picked up about once a month, but I rarely go for it.

The last time was when I was at the mall. I was walking to Target when a girl who I used to vaguely know but hadn't talked to in 2 or 3 years said "hey Porky!" She was working at one of the stands, and said "try this out!" She started giving me a massage using one of the items, and was laughing at my jokes and smiling at me. Seriously, all of the signals. I made some lame excuse about having to go though, because I really wasn't interested.

How about you guys?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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it's funny....... when you're an AFC you keep on wishing "omg I wish that girl comes over here and talks to me!" or "I wish [one-itis] would make a move!"
but..... when it comes down to it and you're a DJ..... girls approaching is practically a turn-off!
You're so used to being the one who starts everything (which gives you power and male dominance and what not), that when a girl does it.... it's not exciting! It's boring..... it's like she's trying to take control, and that just don't work.

So, yea, it has happened, but I find it's alot harder to be interested in a girlw ho tries to pick me up than to do the PU'ing myself.
 
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No kidding. This girl that was giving me the massage was probably an HB8, but I couldn't care less.
 
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About 4 weeks ago at some restoraunt an with my last X.Both came over intoduced themslevs and started a convo(kept going-I'm not the best conversationalist).They were both 5's and I gave/got a headjob in a janiters closet(was the same place).The one that would be my last X asked for my number and ****.Felt rather proud to be honest(proly just my ego).
 
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I hate it when that happens.


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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Last time was this chick who left her friends to leave a football game wiht me. She's like "put ur arm around me" and then she told me her car was pretty far away. So she asked if i would give her a ride to her car. I reluctantly obliged. When we got htere, she wanted to stay in the car and "chat". Despite all the mad signals, she wasn't very attractive. I didn't want anything physical w/ her and the conversation was getting boring so i told her to leave and that i had hw to do.

Good news? She dropped her 15$ activity Pass in my car so now i go to games for free. Muhahaha
 
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