BongDuy
Master Don Juan
yes or no? share some stories. I know that there is a good .01% of women can take a perverted joke and still be cool, but i would like to her opinions
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
being perverted around women?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
Well obviously you should steer the conversation in a flirtatious or sexual direction--then perhaps call her a perv and claim it was her doing 
But just being a perv in general? Well, none of my female friends mind it, and i wouldn't go for a ltr with a girl who treated sex as a taboo subject, but with rabdom girls it's obviously a bad idea
But just being a perv in general? Well, none of my female friends mind it, and i wouldn't go for a ltr with a girl who treated sex as a taboo subject, but with rabdom girls it's obviously a bad idea
QualityGrl
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I would have to say that it depends on how well you know the girl. I think most girls will not respond well to perverted jokes, but if you know the girl for a long time and you have a rapport it should be okay.BongDuy said:
A big no no is if you do not know the girl well and you make a perverted comment in public for others to hear. She will def not like that.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.