"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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being perverted around women?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Exhumed

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Well obviously you should steer the conversation in a flirtatious or sexual direction--then perhaps call her a perv and claim it was her doing :)

But just being a perv in general? Well, none of my female friends mind it, and i wouldn't go for a ltr with a girl who treated sex as a taboo subject, but with rabdom girls it's obviously a bad idea
 

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BongDuy said:
yes or no? share some stories. I know that there is a good .01% of women can take a perverted joke and still be cool, but i would like to her opinions
I would have to say that it depends on how well you know the girl. I think most girls will not respond well to perverted jokes, but if you know the girl for a long time and you have a rapport it should be okay.

A big no no is if you do not know the girl well and you make a perverted comment in public for others to hear. She will def not like that.
 

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If you know the girl can handle it, she probably likes it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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