Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Being persistent

Rhino22

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Well, there is this girl I really like. I have actually mentioned her on here before. She is very popular but I only know her through FB. I'm pretty sure she atleast thinks I'm cute. We have messaged a couple of times. She has "liked" my status several times. And this is someone who has over 1,000 friends, so she must be looking at my page.

Well, we don't message each other often but today she put up a status about needing a bass guitar. Then she said she got one. Well, I got mine not too long ago so I sent her a message just saying if she need anyone to lay down some bass parts for her I was her guy because I had been itching to do something with bass as I already play guitar in another band.

So she responded and said that she was just kind of learning bass right now, put a little smiley face and then said she would let me know if she needed anything.

I thought about replying with something about letting me teach her bass but the truth is I don't really play in a conventional way anyway. Should I just blow this girl off and message her another time?

I really want to start being more persistent. I know she is a "very hard to get" kind of girl but I am confident that I can get her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rhino22 said:
Well, there is this girl I really like. I have actually mentioned her on here before. She is very popular but I only know her through FB
so you dont really know her do you?
I'm pretty sure she atleast thinks I'm cute. We have messaged a couple of times. She has "liked" my status several times
'likes' means noting
. And this is someone who has over 1,000 friends, so she must be looking at my page.
shes obviously the sort who lives on FB, and probably checks out many peoples pages... soz to burst your bubble, you may be reading to much into "not much"

Well, we don't message each other often but today she put up a status about needing a bass guitar. Then she said she got one. Well, I got mine not too long ago so I sent her a message just saying if she need anyone to lay down some bass parts for her I was her guy because I had been itching to do something with bass as I already play guitar in another band.

So she responded and said that she was just kind of learning bass right now, put a little smiley face and then said she would let me know if she needed anything.

I thought about replying with something about letting me teach her bass but the truth is I don't really play in a conventional way anyway. Should I just blow this girl off and message her another time?

I really want to start being more persistent. I know she is a "very hard to get" kind of girl but I am confident that I can get her.
i wonder how many other guys are thinking shes hot and talking to her a little bit...just like you
 

Rhino22

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What other FB thread? Well, arent we optimistic ? She wished me a happy birthday today, so this chick obviiously doesnt think im some kind of a creep! I just need to play things out just right.


I talked to another girl on facebook starting last year and then a few weeks ago my band played on this 2nd floor of a loft. She was on the first floor and came running over to me to just shake my hand. Then she calls me the other night. This is a girl I only knew from facebook. So facebook is not irrelevant. Sometimes its the best place to meet people.
 

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Rhino22 said:
What other FB thread? Well, arent we optimistic ? She wished me a happy birthday today, so this chick obviiously doesnt think im some kind of a creep! I just need to play things out just right.


I talked to another girl on facebook starting last year and then a few weeks ago my band played on this 2nd floor of a loft. She was on the first floor and came running over to me to just shake my hand. Then she calls me the other night. This is a girl I only knew from facebook. So facebook is not irrelevant. Sometimes its the best place to meet people.
if youd have looked u may have seen this maybe?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=172883

well if FB works for you ok, but 4 the vast majority of guys on here it dont...
facebook isnt good for dating... notied the amount of threads on this forum that start with "this girl on facebook..." and end badly...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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To add my 2 cents...I have slept with at least 3 girls I met via Facebook
 
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