"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Being more "touchy" with someone who's touchy-feely with everybody?

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Hello, everybody!

I've read that guys have to break the touch barrier with women... but how is this done if you're unsure if you're getting anywhere if the girl is already touchy-feely?

She accepts hugs from anyone and all that. How do I know if she's just thinking nothing of it, or she doesn't know I'm trying to be more "affectionate" with her.

Any ideas?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't have an answer but I find your question interesting so I'll bump it.

Is the girl really touchy feely or is she an attention wh0re? If she's going around giving kino to all the guys that would be my assessment.
If she's really just touchy feely, then look up and read about kino escalation. That might be what you're looking for. You want to appear casual with your touching at first but you want to build to making her feel your intent.
 
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We are meant to want human contact from birth. If she's touchy feely with everyone she could be an AW or maybe not. Alot of foreigners from Europe or Latin countries (if she is) are like that. So I'd probably deal with it by beating her to the punch. Let her hug you and touch you and say to her "You're so sweet" or "You're so cute" when you give your little hugs. Tell her you've learned it's better to hug for a longer time and look into her eyes and smile if she goes for it.... Or if you want to touch me you’re going to have to kiss me IF I let you. She may go for it or not. If she doesn't she'll get the point and know you aren't some orbiting chump who's going to wilt in her arms.
 
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