Being more "touchy" with someone who's touchy-feely with everybody?

[tophat mcgee]

Hello, everybody!

I've read that guys have to break the touch barrier with women... but how is this done if you're unsure if you're getting anywhere if the girl is already touchy-feely?

She accepts hugs from anyone and all that. How do I know if she's just thinking nothing of it, or she doesn't know I'm trying to be more "affectionate" with her.

Any ideas?

 

[tophat mcgee]

Surely someone else has had a problem like this before... No suggestions?

 

[zekko]

I don't have an answer but I find your question interesting so I'll bump it.

Is the girl really touchy feely or is she an attention wh0re? If she's going around giving kino to all the guys that would be my assessment.
If she's really just touchy feely, then look up and read about kino escalation. That might be what you're looking for. You want to appear casual with your touching at first but you want to build to making her feel your intent.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

We are meant to want human contact from birth. If she's touchy feely with everyone she could be an AW or maybe not. Alot of foreigners from Europe or Latin countries (if she is) are like that. So I'd probably deal with it by beating her to the punch. Let her hug you and touch you and say to her "You're so sweet" or "You're so cute" when you give your little hugs. Tell her you've learned it's better to hug for a longer time and look into her eyes and smile if she goes for it.... Or if you want to touch me you’re going to have to kiss me IF I let you. She may go for it or not. If she doesn't she'll get the point and know you aren't some orbiting chump who's going to wilt in her arms.