being more confident after a club

[napoleon]

Did you notice that you are more confident the day after the club. Even if you've been blown off all the time. You don't fear of rejection.
Also a question-do you get better at clubbing if you do it more often?

 

[Tails]

... clubbing sucks.

 

[Viking25]

Yeah I do notice that! After surviving the night in the club,the next day I feel like I can talk to any chick I want to. Clubbing sux only when all you get is rejection. In that case just keep going..you'll hook up eventually.

 

[napoleon]

Do you get better at clubbing with time. Every time I have gone out I was rejected(except on New Year-but I was drunk and the girl was ugly and I made out with her)

 

[Viking25]

depends what you call rejection. I dance with girls and grab their asses and stuff...hehe,but haven't hooked up with anyone yet. I do get better with time tho.
And clubs are the worse place for PU...their shields are up! and you can't really talk.

 

[DJ_Dork]

uhh not necessarily if you didn't dance with a girl that night. If you danced with a girl that was attracted to you/you attracted to her, then YES it is true that you feel like you're the "sh!t" for the next couple of days. It's only temporarily. If you go to clubs not expecting to dance with a girl, more than likely you will find a girl to dance with.

 

[Tails]

yes, nice one dork. the same goes in general. the less you look for a GF, the more likely you will get one. if you look too hard to find a GF, usually the opposite will happen

 

[napoleon]

I have gone clubbing not to get girls but to have fun,but as you see all your friends dancing with chicks you want to also.
I think I am not ugly, so what is the problem?
Confidence? I have no problem with dancing and approaching ,but have some problem with touching them(like I dance and grab them around the waist after 30 sec. of dancing not imediately ).

 

[Ol'BlueEyes]

I have gone clubbing not to get girls but to have fun,but as you see all your friends dancing with chicks you want to also.

Exactly. When I first went clubbing, I was all about getting some *****. I'd come on too strong at the hottest girls there, they'd reject me and I'd go home alone and disappointed.
Now, it's all about having a blast. Ironically, I've gotten more numbers from just having a good time.

 

[napoleon]

reply!

 

[quest]

who the hell said club is a bad place to pick up? come on!

i see some guys really struggle with it, cause they act like a painting and just sit on the wall all night..

all you gotto do is get drunk with ur mates, go solo or get one or two mates, cruise around the joint, hit the dancefloor... smile at anyone who looks at you, if they smile back go say hello..

the way i find easiest to pick up at a club is just head out to the dancefloor, join some girls, don't be sleazy and just grab them from behind, that **** doesnt work unless ur really good looking.. just move in next to them, smile etc. if they are accepting of you being there u can just bump the one next to u a few times (playfully) grab her hand, isolate her, spin her around a few times, when she's got her ass facing u, move in and grind on her. if she's letting u do this, your in for sure.. just stop being a ***** and start kissing her.