how do you just be laid back not giving a ****? i been trying to do this but sometimes i get too serious like when my friend pushed me the othr day he was playikn around i got serious or when people are playin around? how do i get to be playful and not take **** serious? in other words letting go
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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You basically answered your own question...You just "go with the flow" and don't let things bother you. There's not really a "how to" section on it, you just ARE it. I mean, I'm not really a quote-un-quote laid back person when it comes to certain issues, but for regular parties and conversational things, I can chill with the best of 'em. It's just something you either naturally have, or allow yourself to become. You can't really "make yourself" become laid back (because that's basically a contradictory of what laid back is), you just sort of "fall into" it.
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WHAT A DUMB ****ING QUESTION.
If you're not laid back, don't try to be dumbass. Be who you are and run with it. Take it as far as you can.
Beyond that, you're wasting your damn time. Though, on a limb, I'd say that such a thing is not a tragedy to society.
If you're not laid back, don't try to be dumbass. Be who you are and run with it. Take it as far as you can.
Beyond that, you're wasting your damn time. Though, on a limb, I'd say that such a thing is not a tragedy to society.