how do you just be laid back not giving a ****? i been trying to do this but sometimes i get too serious like when my friend pushed me the othr day he was playikn around i got serious or when people are playin around? how do i get to be playful and not take **** serious? in other words letting go
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You basically answered your own question...You just "go with the flow" and don't let things bother you. There's not really a "how to" section on it, you just ARE it. I mean, I'm not really a quote-un-quote laid back person when it comes to certain issues, but for regular parties and conversational things, I can chill with the best of 'em. It's just something you either naturally have, or allow yourself to become. You can't really "make yourself" become laid back (because that's basically a contradictory of what laid back is), you just sort of "fall into" it.
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WHAT A DUMB ****ING QUESTION.
If you're not laid back, don't try to be dumbass. Be who you are and run with it. Take it as far as you can.
Beyond that, you're wasting your damn time. Though, on a limb, I'd say that such a thing is not a tragedy to society.
If you're not laid back, don't try to be dumbass. Be who you are and run with it. Take it as far as you can.
Beyond that, you're wasting your damn time. Though, on a limb, I'd say that such a thing is not a tragedy to society.