how do you just be laid back not giving a ****? i been trying to do this but sometimes i get too serious like when my friend pushed me the othr day he was playikn around i got serious or when people are playin around? how do i get to be playful and not take **** serious? in other words letting go
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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You basically answered your own question...You just "go with the flow" and don't let things bother you. There's not really a "how to" section on it, you just ARE it. I mean, I'm not really a quote-un-quote laid back person when it comes to certain issues, but for regular parties and conversational things, I can chill with the best of 'em. It's just something you either naturally have, or allow yourself to become. You can't really "make yourself" become laid back (because that's basically a contradictory of what laid back is), you just sort of "fall into" it.
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WHAT A DUMB ****ING QUESTION.
If you're not laid back, don't try to be dumbass. Be who you are and run with it. Take it as far as you can.
Beyond that, you're wasting your damn time. Though, on a limb, I'd say that such a thing is not a tragedy to society.
If you're not laid back, don't try to be dumbass. Be who you are and run with it. Take it as far as you can.
Beyond that, you're wasting your damn time. Though, on a limb, I'd say that such a thing is not a tragedy to society.