"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being labeled as a "friend"

circa1369

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When you first meet a girl, how do you prevent yourself from being labeled as a "friend" any other tips on how to make the right first impression would also be helpful
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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S0LID

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confidence, being social, flirting, teasing.
 

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Just don't get to the point where she starts telling all of her problems and what not to you. You'll know when 'cause she'll be treating you like another one of her girlfriends.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Be confident, attract her sexually and don't always have time for her. If you make yourself casually available on YOUR TIME and unavailable on her time then you'll get her when you want.



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